Move out and stay alive, is it possible?

This moving article was added on 10-7-2007

For most of us moving to a new state or especially country is a big change, if we admit it or not we are very stressed about the idea of moving to a new place we do or do not know, it makes us feel uncertain about the future, a lot of thoughts comes to every mind, and we start worrying, which make us think a lot and not function the way we usually do, well it is very normal, but we can take some action that might help us to relief the pressure and maybe learn from it, how to deal with large steps and pressure in general.

Well of course that is not an exact sciencem but it is based on my own expereince in life, the first thing we should believe that everything happens for a good reason, and in order to do that, we should look back at other time when we were pressured about something and remember when it turned out to be a good thing, it is not easy to do if you are looking at everything in a negative lite because of your current situation that you are moving, try to think positive, after you have even a small reason to believe that everything is for a good reason, now think on how this move can effect you life for better, maybe this will be the place where, the good things will start to happen one after another, it could be anything that will make you feel good, it does not have to be a "common thing" that "usually" makes people feel good, imagine how after you are moving you start to become more and more complete about who you are, and maybe you will find yourself among people you like in this new place you are moving to, how you do well in everything that you did not do well on the previous place, just go with it, and believe in it, everytime that you think negative thoughts about it, just try to think about something else, now I know that you might have heard those things like thousands of times before, and I did also, but there is one thing to remember, we do not really control everything, a big decision such as moving to another place, made after the circumbstabces have been reviewd by you, and this is probably what you should do, I hope it will make you feel better about your move, and maybe you can use it in other times of life not just when you are moving, here is some clip I found in YouTube about moving, hope you enjoy it